It’s not just a dance anymore.
Personal perspective right up front: I never went to a prom. All-girl’s schools didn’t do that. With good reason.
So, as I listened to a young-ish parent’s concerns about his daughter’s upcoming prom, and its many stressors, I muttered to myself: “Surely this is much ado about nothing.”
Until I listened more closely.
Getting a bill passed in Congress is surely duck soup in comparison. The navigating, negotiating, politics, and maneuvering through the plans and pitfalls of today’s proms require a law degree (with a specialty in mediation), a psychology degree, an MBA, and a steely hand. Mere mortals such as mothers and fathers need not apply.
The committee structure is just the beginning. That might include Wardrobe, Hair, Makeup, Food and Beverage, Travel, Decorations, Budget, Protocol and Photography. Other sub-committees may become necessary as the event and its demands loom closer.
Now we have the “Promposal.” A new word for a new world. Apparently, the young man no longer simply asks the young woman to accompany him to the Prom. No, these days that invitation should be jazzed up in unique, special, creative, even secretive, fashion. And it better be good or the answer could well be “no.”
Then there are the after-parties. And the after-parties-after-parties. Now the issue of alcohol comes into play. Serious, scary stuff.
Of course, there’s Breakfast. Where, who, what and when?
Toss in social media and it starts to be overwhelming.
Fueling all the angst, of course, are those raging teen-age hormones.
All I can do is listen and take deep breaths for the family. We just ask that they call us when it’s over.
And not a moment before.
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